I have so much to say about this. My best unsolicited advice is to quit making rules you know you can’t enforce. Also a little less surveillance and more frank honest conversations you think your kids are too young for. I’m mostly glad I did these things the way I did. I have regrets for sure though
one of my contrarian parent takes is I don’t track my kids. And I’m shocked I even have to say it’s contrarian but seems like the norm is to track